Cheating Thai girlfriend. In this post, I will discuss one of the most common investigations we handle—the cheating Thai girlfriend investigation. While you hear a lot of cheating Thai girlfriend stories, we investigate them every day. We will discuss some specifics here. Mainly what the investigation involves and why we get so many of them.

Many cheating Thai girlfriend investigations involve Thai Bar Girls who formerly worked in bars or still work in bars. Many of these girls still work in the bar, but this is unknown to their partner. A lot of Thai bar girls get involved in a relationship with a foreign man. We get a lot of situations like this. So, it is quite clear that most foreign men do not understand the Thai way of thinking. This ignorance of the Thai way is 90% of the problem and the cause of most of their troubles.

First of all, privacy and discretion are paramount, of course. It is the first thing a prospective client asks us while making their initial inquiry. Is my information confidential and private? What is your privacy policy? So when we take a case, we know the client wants a discrete Thailand private investigator working for them. Hence, we never disclose private information to a third party for any reason. For instance, we never sell email addresses or other personal information.  As a result, you can rest assured that your privacy is safe and secure with us.

“Better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie.”

Cheating Thai girlfriend

There are three different kinds of results in my book. A good result, an unfortunate result, and an “I didn’t have enough time” result. The latter usually happens when a case period ends and the client doesn’t want to continue. It is generally due to financial reasons. However, given the required time, I can always solve a case.

Cheating Thai spouse, being video taped

A cheating Thai spouse.

Experienced pros

We have handled hundreds and hundreds of cheating Thai spouse cases since 1999. Clients ask what percentage of cases get solved. The answer is 98%. The other 2% that don’t get solved is that we didn’t have enough time to solve the case. Again, this is usually because the client has financial concerns. However, most cases take 1-2 weeks in general. It all depends on the circumstances at the time the investigation starts.

The most extended case I worked on personally lasted 3 1/2 months. I was able to get the evidence on the 4th day of the last week. On that day, another man showed up at the house my client bought for his cheating Thai girlfriend. It turned out this other man (German) was also a financial contributor to purchasing the home. Neither man knew about the other. In the end, she exposed herself as a two-timer, which was the end of the game. The client had the money and the time to get the result. Therefore, we were able to get the evidence. He said he just knew something was wrong on every extension of the case. He was correct. It turned out the whole thing was a scam from the beginning. You can read more about Thai bar girl scams by clicking here.

Cheating Thai girlfriend

The stories vary here and there, but there is a common thread in most infidelity cases. That thread is the general misunderstanding of Thai culture and the Thai way. It is the main reason so many foreign men have a cheating Thai girlfriend. They don’t understand what they are doing. So, it causes difficult situations. Getting involved with Thai bar girls and then marrying them is usually the wrong decision. Most men who become involved with Thai bar girls lose everything in the end. Sometimes, in the millions of dollars.

Since a lot of our investigations involve Thai bar girls, we know this is true. We see it over and over again. So, you have to understand what is going on behind the scenes. The existence of a Thai husband or a Thai boyfriend, for instance. You must also understand that there could be others besides you. A lot of cheating Thai spouse cases involve previously married Thai women. Meaning they are already married to a Thai man. A Thailand private investigator can find this out for you.

In most cases, Thai bar girls are juggling several men at once. The more men they have, the more money they can make. It is all about money, just like everything else in today’s world. In Thailand, money talks, and cash is boss in the land of smiles. So, expect to spend a lot of your money if you have a Thai girlfriend you met in a bar.

Thailand on the game

Thailand on the game.

Understanding the Thai way

Rule number one in Thailand is to take care of the family first. It is valid in all Asian countries. It is part of the culture. So, it also means that if you take on a Thai girlfriend, you will take care of the family. However, this condition causes a lot of problems. Many foreign men disagree on this, and they don’t want to support the family. So, that makes problems for the girl. The whole reason she went to work in a bar is to find a good man. A man with money. A man who will take care of her and her family as well, for instance.

However, some situations in the dark corners of Thai society are unknown. Gambling and alcoholism are two big problems in the country. A lot of Thai bar girls are working to pay off their father’s gambling debts. We hear about situations like this all the time. Another big problem is poverty, of course. Most of the girls working in bars are poor farm girls. A job in a weak part of the country will pay 10,000 baht a month. Thai bar girls can make the same amount in a week. So, it is easy to understand why so many girls work in bars in Pattaya and Phuket.

Cheating Thai spouse

In some poor Thai villages, there are big houses with new cars. Those homes belong to girls who found a foreign man to take care of the whole family. Her husband has money, and he takes care of her. When other women in the same village see this, they want to know how to achieve the same thing. The reason is always the same. The woman with the Farang husband, the house, and the money, worked in a bar. She met her foreign husband there. A man like this is what they call a good man. He takes care of everything. He pays all the bills, and he takes care of the whole family. Not just his Thai wife or girlfriend.

The problem starts when you discover you may not be the only good man in town. There could be another man you don’t know exists. He could have a similar situation as you. So, what is the common thread between the two of you? You both have the same cheating Thai spouse. There are cases where we find some girls have three or more men at the same time. We also find that many Thai women working as Thai bar girls are already married to Thai men. So, this is why you want to engage a Thailand private investigator. We can discover situations like this. It is what we do best.

Get peace of mind

Hey, we get it. Peace of mind is the bottom line, while privacy is a top priority. It is the reason people contact us; they want to know the truth. There is nothing worse than not knowing the truth. Dark secrets hiding in the shadows isn’t fun for anyone. While it eats away at your peace of mind, it causes endless stress and worries. So, we understand your dilemma. When we take a case, we know what the end game is. It is to give the client peace of mind while resolving the situation with the truth.

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